36 weeks: The Countdown is On!

Here I thought at the beginning of all of this- oh, sure, I'll have plenty of time to blog every other week and keep everyone updated on me. HA! If it wasn't for technology and quick messaging, well, I'd be one mysterious pregnant lady.

I will say, I look back to the earlier weeks and some of the 'discomforts,' I thought I had...oh how I wish I could go back to those days.  The good news is, we're coming down to home stretch now. Halleluiah!

One little fun thing everyone can do, is put their vote in as to when/what/size/etc baby will be! Just click here and let's see how the votes come in! The tally at work is still very boy skewed, and many people have flopped their vote from their original prediction. The midwife's official vote is boy, as well. All of the boy votes make me want to vote girl out of spite, because, of course, our child is a rebel at heart ;) HAHA I don't even make sense anymore!

How big is baby Keck: At 36 weeks- a big ole honeydew melon if we're going fruit sizes-- actual size between 4 and 6 lbs and gaining every day! Baby is in constant motion, too. We're in big trouble if it's this active outside the womb! [having a kickboxing training sesh as I type this]. Also notable- baby is head down & measuring right on target.

34 weeks

Weight Gain: *Gulp* 27 lbs.

Maternity Clothes: Except my super long shirts, yes- and some of my maternity pants are a no-go since water retention has begun. Hello leggings and dresses for the duration of baby's stay in my uterus.

Sleep: Oh sweet sleep. I can sleep for hours in the middle of the day, but at night...forgettaboutit! Between getting up to pee, waking up from hip discomfort, dead limbs, or just insomnia. Oye! The nights I do get a good rest, I'm thankful.

Symptoms: I have to say, the last 36 weeks really has been quite easy. Especially in comparison to many pregnant women I chat with. I certainly count my blessings there. I have officially felt what I am positive are Braxton Hicks contractions. Only a couple times, and it makes me pretty confident I'll know when the real thing happens. The first trimester exhaustion/insomnia is back, too- which is lovely.  Oh, and how can I forget the constant pain in my poor little sausage fingers! This pregnancy onset carpal tunnel is no joke. My rings miss me.

Adam & Me [he's just so darn cute]

Best Moment the last few weeks: Getting the baby's area all set up. We are pretty much completely organized. It feels great to have all of our stuff out of boxes (except a few boxes of diapers, of course) and bags and actually in a "place." Also when we got our stroller & car seat, that was SUPER exciting. OH- and maternity photographs! I posted the album on facebook, and you can find it here, courtesy of Haole Girl Photography. [also subbing my 34 week photo from the shoot]

Biggest Challenge: Mentally preparing for everything and trying not to get outrageously annoyed every time someone tells us our world is about to change completely and there is no way we can be actually ready. I guess it's more because no other time in anyone's life do people feel entitled to tell you every opinion they have about you & what/how/when things will happen for you. It's incredible. Duh, I know, we can't. There is no way. I'm aware that we are first time parents and it will be a whirlwind of change. If half the energy that is put in to telling us how 'dumb' we are, went into some actual positive input, then I'd be happier. Of course, there are people who are extraordinarily supportive and constructive, and it's marvelous. I've been around and taken care of a fresh newborn before- I actually do have insight into how much work they take, and I fully recognize that it will be different for us- but there again, just because it happened to you, doesn't mean it will happen to us. So please, if you feel like being snarky- just don't, because I'm about to go hormonal crazy woman the next time. Mmk thanks. WOW. Sorry for my rant, still love me?

Miss anything: Total TMI moment, you've been warned- and for those of you who are freshly expecting/will be soon, here is one little nugget no one ever tells you - wiping is like a contortionist event. I seriously feel like a cirque du soleil reject for how much effort it takes to reach! Also, a big freaking beer! I don't even like beer that much and I legitimately cannot wait to have an ice cold one. There are many other pregnant lady woes about what I miss, but I'll save ya the torture. Ok, it's not that bad, really.
 
Most excited about: Meeting this little bugger in just a few weeks. I think that will be the permanent most excited about until baby comes, now.








Cravings: Back to first trimester weirdoness, except that chocolate doesn't repulse me. A good salami and cheese sandwich is made from the Gods. I'm convinced. That and anything cheesy (real cheese, cheetos, cheez-its, etc). 

Mood: Contrary to this post- okay, lies- I'm a little stabby. To be expected, though, right? Naw, Adam has been such a good husband, making me feel extra special lately, so that really helps me stay in a happy mood.

Milestones: Ummm does HUGE count as a milestone? The sweatshirt I am wearing in the week photo was baggy on me last year...haha- a very real reminder that I am large, regardless how "tiny" people say I am. Trust me, I'm not! The next will be our hospital tour scheduled for Jan 11th (holy cutting it close, yeah, we know) and car seat inspection, and then my last day of work. The temp comes on January 6th (SO CLOSE!) so I'll have a week or two to train him in, and then buh bye for a few months. EEK!

 Looking forward to: Getting the car seat installed, putting the finishing touches on baby's corner, and washing everything. After fully enjoying our last *alone* holiday together, of course.


Merry Christmas everyone! I hope you have a marvelous holiday whether your family is near or far. We will be lounging with all of our favorite Christmas movies and crock pot cocoa for our celebration!

-Momma in approximately 4 weeks! 

Tracking the Bump: Quick Update & Preview- 33 weeks

I honest to goodness cannot believe how quickly time is going! I promise to do a FULL update, complete with all of my random ailments ;) Even more importantly- the rundown of our incredible showers & how prepared we *think* we are <--- through the "AHHH we're having a baby moments."

For the moment I will just say-- we have an appointment today, so official progress report to come. I'm feeling great, the home stretch is certainly on the way. Growing bigger every day, and so active I can hardly sit through a meeting without giggling from all the activities happening in my uterus!

This time next month we will be putting the finishing touches on everything patiently waiting for it to be our turn!

Happy Thursday, everyone! Here is me from the beginning --to now. 

I can officially say-- my true bump arrived around 25/26 weeks.... I go from "maybe she's pregnant" to.. "DANG GIRL, you've gots a baby in there!"   This week... I'm feeling like a true basketball/watermelon smuggler. The changes in shape/size/position of my belly are just crazy! Loving every minute (minus the bruised rib and foot cramps). 

Until next time--- this plump mama is off to have some breakfast and an appointment with our midwife!


- Large & in charge

29 Weeks & It's Getting Real!

OH MY GOSH- In 11 weeks (give or take a couple), Adam & I will be PARENTS! What the what?!


I'm sure I will be saying that a lot in the course of the next 2 1/2 months, but we had our first HOLY MOLY moment today when we received our first "big" baby gift-- the bassinet!

Grandpa & Grandma Wiswell sent us the exact one we were hoping for, and it looks perfect. As Adam was giving me the play-by-play of setting it up, stating the zippers were "tougher on his thumbs than the knex roller coaster," I had to giggle because that is likely one of the more simple pieces of child furniture that we will encounter in our future.

Here is a little snapshot of the perfect little snoozer for the munchkin ---->  *SO EXCITED!*


Per usual lately, we've been so busy that just when I am thinking to update the pictures and everything, something else comes up. All last week, Adam wasn't feeling so great, so we were in bed extra early.

Luckily, this week is promising. We still have a ton happening, but it is getting more manageable. It will be nice when the semester break hits, then we'll be able to enjoy a few weeks together with not so much happening, except, of course, getting ready for this new addition.

So- on to the questions-- using week 29 as the benchmark.

How big is baby Keck:   One says large butternut squash- another says acorn squash...so, baby is just a big ole squash! Growing like crazy in there!

Weight Gain: As of October 18, I officially gained 18lbs (ha, 18 on the 18th!) --though I'm sure it's closer to 20 now. *hides head*

 











Maternity Clothes: More shirts are being retired, and a couple more dresses. Even my low band maternity pants are starting to give me a little grief-- bring on full panel gloriousness!

 Sleep: My best sleep in the last few weeks has been the few hours in the evening that I zonk on the couch before Adam brings me to bed, or falls asleep on me, and I wake us up to go to bed. Once I get into that nice position, I'm good- but I'm finding if I'm not propped up enough, I really do get a little short of breath, no matter what position.

 Best Moment the last 3 weeks: Getting to spend Adam's birthday with our good friends. It was so nice to get out, be out, and just have a great evening. While they were certainly enjoying the finer things about the evening *ahembeer,* it was great to let my lover man celebrate and just relax with some of our favorites on the island. Also- of course, today, getting the bassinet in the mail. SO so exciting. I am sure as more things start coming in, it's going to get even more exciting.

Biggest Challenge: That dang glucose test! I know I am a very healthy person 95% of the time, but there was this little part of me way too paranoid about that silly little thing. Worst part is, it really wouldn't have been the end of the world if I did have gestational diabetes, I still would have felt pretty defeated. Luckily, ALL CLEAR! Wahoo. I can sit back and enjoy my cookies for the next 11 weeks. The other thing-- hormone alert--remembering to check myself when I'm worked up about something. It is a little too easy to take things personally for me generally speaking, and now I have to consciously remember to remove myself before feeling any way about things happening around/about me. 

 





Miss anything: Recently... my pre-baby body. Ugh! I know, it sounds a bit petty- but while I absolutely LOVE feeling little one wiggle around in there, and I feel like I have a lovely pregnant body- what I would give to bend over normally, wear one of my fitted dresses, go do a heavy duty workout with the exhaustion reward (now just walking up stairs is the exhaustion reward...ha!)
 
Most excited about: The shower coming up in a couple weeks, of course- it should be a great day. OH- getting a haircut! These locks need a freshening up in the worst way. Otherwise, just looking forward to getting more stuff for the baby to prepare for the grand entrance.

Cravings: Just a food-a-holic. There really isn't anything that I need to have on any given day, though I'd probably have steak, fruit & pizza for every meal if I could...haha.

Symptoms: HOT,  energetic but tired,  and I hit a wall of pure discomfort around 9:30PM every evening. Other than that, major major movement. This kid is cah-ray-zee! There is no pattern or time of day that baby Keck is most active, but goodness gracious! I keep thinking I can get it on video, but of course- the moment I whip out my phone to record, I get a long pause. Little turd!












Mood: Not much has changed here- feeling slightly more emotional the last week or two. A combo of my rapidly changing body, getting excited, yet feeling a little overwhelmed...yep- I think that pretty much explains it.

Milestones: Made it to the 3rd trimester! Home stretch! Luckily, though this little munchkin is ridiculously active, s/he seems pretty cozy in there, so hopefully we have a full 11 weeks to keep cookin'.

 Looking forward to:  Hospital tour, getting all registered there and really putting the finishing touches on getting prepped for this baby. Adam & I have a mini "babymoon" planned for this month or early next. Just a weekend of us. Spending a few days doing exactly what we love doing, without any other worries in the world. I feel like we just get so busy and caught up in our same routine (not all bad, routines are my friend) and forget to really sit down and enjoy each other's company without the distractions of everything else.

Well, as you can see- I grow pretty significantly each week, now. I'm almost afraid to see how massive this belly will get in the coming weeks!

-The Keck Mama-To-Be

25 down, 15 to go!

Phew! Time is flying, and my belly is growing by the minute! The last two weeks have been so busy, but full of great, happy things.

Surprisingly, I don't have a ton to say, other than I feel like a slacker because technically I'm now in week 26 but since it's Monday (and my day off), I'm taking care of house business and will not be making myself look nice for a picture. 

One thing I will say, and it makes me chuckle, is that I feel a lot smaller than I think I look when I see a picture of myself. Aside from having to remind myself that the higher number on the scale is no biggy (and it only sends me into minor shock moment for .2), I think God is playing a silly trick on me by making me feel small- and then when I see a picture of myself I think, "Holy Moly! Who is this massively pregnant chick?!" I mean, I know I am note huge by any means, but in comparison to my pre-pregnancy body--my oh my have I changed!

   
 How big is baby Keck:  at the end of week 25, baby is the size of a head of cauliflower. Growing quick!

Weight Gain: Haven't weighed myself in a while- but I will know for sure on Wednesday at my appointment. I'm guessing somewhere around 15lbs so far.

Maternity Clothes: This status hasn't changed- I have retired more non-maternity shirts, but the ones that were longer anyway still work, especially with a maternity tank underneath! Like I've said before- maternity pants since the first weeks- this baby starts at my pelvis!

Sleep: Sleeping very soundly again, hallelujah! Rolling over in bed...well, that is getting more interesting. I have to prep myself, give a good grunt, and I make it over to my other side. Though, baby is now ridiculously active at night, and does not appreciate me on my left side often. I get a sharp jab to the ribs and hard kicks all over the moment I flip from the right to left side. Wonder that that is all about! 


Best Moment the last 3 weeks: Getting a couple evenings with Adam! With our busy schedules, it seems like we only see each other when we're sleeping and getting ready in the morning. Not ideal, though I am so proud of him for working so hard at school & work.

Biggest Challenge: Remembering this belly is starting to limit certain things. The last couple weeks I've actually started to feel pregnant, if that makes sense. I've been feeling baby for weeks, but my belly was still relatively small- but now...shizah! That under-belly soreness at the end of a long day is not awesome. Getting winded by walking up our stairs fast isn't awesome, either.

Miss anything: I thought of something the other day, but other than a normal stride when I walk, I'm not feeling "without" anything lately.

Most excited about: Having a date set for the baby shower! November 17th! Maybe because I didn't have a bridal shower and all that jazz, I'm more pumped. Not going to lie, though, figuring out what to put on registries is complicated. I feel like we've registered for a "whole baby" but...I guess we'll find out! Either way, I think I'm mostly excited about setting a date to see my friends--I feel like we just don't get out much, so having set events is so convenient to get to really catch up with everyone. Plus, my incredible friend, Becca, is hosting, so I have no doubt she'll make it fabulous!

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Cravings: I've come to the realization that my "cravings" aren't really cravings, honestly. I mean, who doesn't generally have an idea as to what they'd like to eat on a given day? Besides, it's not like I want some crazy combo of awkward foods that I've never enjoyed. I will say, though, that my chocolate/sweets aversion the first trimester was for real. Aside from that, I haven't had any funky food situations. However, I must say- the response time to me saying I'd enjoy some pumpkin flavored goodies (definitely a this time of year thing for me always--and Christmas time is anything chocolate peppermint, yum yum!), to the time of receipt was fantastic! Hehe I am overwhelmed with love and support, and it was so sweet of everyone to grab me pumpkin deliciousness! Adam teased me, "why would you put a craving on FB, you're about to be overloaded with pumpkin!" ....he wasn't wrong, and I am so grateful for all that love!

Symptoms: Finger swelling, but it is MUCH better (notice, I am actually wearing my rings in the weekly pics!). Perhaps since it has cooled down, my poor fingers get some relief. Otherwise, just the under belly soreness at the end of the day and stuffy nose are about the only things I can attribute to pregnancy. My energy has been pretty good, I've been able to get out for a jog, do some yoga, and take Kunu for long power walks (complete with sniffing breaks, of course).

Mood: I've been a mixture of really relaxed and really motivated- once again, contradictory moods...yes, I know. It's like I want to get so much done, but without the stress/anxiety that usually accompanies those things. I'm loving it, feeling much less stress no matter the situation has been the biggest bonus to pregnancy for me.

Milestones: Shifting belly!! I can officially determind where baby K is at any part of the day based on where my belly sits.  Also- I think my "belly shape" is pretty set. I'm poking out much more to the front, now- and any side belly I had happening is going away. Kind of funny to look at me from a front view vs side view now. (except in these pics where I purposefully contour the shirts to show off belly!)
 
Looking forward to:  Getting to organize things for baby. Also the appointments coming up, getting a hospital tour, birthing classes and all the stuff that marks the official preparation for baby! It's pretty exciting, but I feel like there is still so much to accomplish in these last 15 weeks...and if they go by ask quickly as the first 15- AH! I better get crackin.

So... now that I have a bit more of a belly--- any other guesses on what this babe might be? A mini me, or mini Adam? Hmmm....

Well - until next time! 

Busy-Bee-Momma-To-Be!

Oh, silly hormones... 23 weeks

23 weeks! Things are certainly pluggin along.

I have to say, there are a lot of things I anticipated with pregnancy...but there have been a few surprises along the way. Namely- this emotional rollercoaster. Calm, annoyed, excited, stressed, exhausted, restless...OYE! [Most of the time, I really have been a ridiculous amount more laid back in pregnancy than I am in real life, though.] I truly thought that since the worst of my PMS was when my 16 year old self got all worked up over my dad asking whether or not the dishes were done, or what boy I was dating "this week," and bursting into insta hysterical tears-- that I would be OK in pregnancy.

I mean heck... I'm in charge of dishes, and pretty sure my relationship status has been stable for quite some time. Oh...Ashley...how wrong you were. Because of said hormonal emotions, I haven't shared many of these things, until now. Why? Well, when I'm not crying because I was 15 minutes late to my OB appointment and the nurse wouldn't wait until the end to take my vitals (I ran from the bus stop to the clinic, and was scared my pulse/blood pressure would be all whacko), or doing a foot stomp tantrum [in public] because breakfast stopped serving at the bakery 20 minutes ago and I can no longer get a breakfast bagel, I just have to laugh.

It makes the hectic workday and all of the crazy happening in life seem a little better. I joked with a co-worker today that, "No one will have a more dramatic reaction than a pregnant lady!" I think I do a decent job of keeping my knee-jerk reactions to certain things people decide to spew from their lips, but the urges to whack the woman who tells me "you should be bigger by now, you know, they have size and weight benchmarks," or say, DUH, to the next person to tell me, "oh you think things are getting awkward now, just wait."

 Ok...maybe I'm over reacting, but seriously folks-- I'm not sure how many times it needs to be said--- If you don't have something positive to say to a pregnant woman, turn around and walk away. [Unless you are close to me, then by all means, I promise I've not been offended by anything sassy you've said--and if I have, I've told you! Adam makes a fatty fart noise every time I sit down or take my shirt off for goodness sakes] :)  What if there was something wrong, won't you feel like a giant donkey for having opened your mouth?!


Rant. Over.  Now onto the good stuff-- I'm naughty, it's been 3 weeks since the last post. Oops, too busy!

How big is baby Keck:  Little one is the size of a big ole grapefruit! (seems like a small cantelope is bigger...whatever- it's growing!) & becoming more alert and active.

Weight Gain: As of last weeks appointment, I'm up 12 lbs. Shizah! I definitely know I've had a growth spurt lately, and that confirmed it.

Maternity Clothes: Ohhh yeah. I can still do most of the shirts and dresses- but the maternity ones are SO much more comfortable.

Sleep: Actually, now that I've surrounded myself in pillows and make sure to pop my mouth guard in (yeah, super sexy, I know), I've been sleeping awesome. I don't remember getting up to pee- though I know I am.

Best Moment the last 3 weeks: Honestly, meeting our midwife was a huge sigh of relief. I have liked the OB MD and my regular NP, but she is outstanding. I have officially decided that she'll be the one (given everything goes OK) to deliver this baby- she will bring absolute happiness and excitement to the day in a way that I did not get from the other two. She radiated sunshine and pure passion for babies, their mommies and the whole delivery process. Even more, she didn't bat an eye when Adam swung in with his sarcastic side comments- she played right back. It was fantastic. *I'm quite sure he gets side-eyed and my file gets a red dot from the other people around the facility...ha*

OH! Also, when we were out with friends the other night, a random group of [stumbling] guys gave us a big ole WOO HOOO, You're having a baaabbyyy, alrighttt! It was hilarious, and made me feel pretty good that even strangers can tell there's a baby in there.

Biggest Challenge: Keeping my cool when things get stressful. There has been a lot going on in many different places of life, and it's hard for me to remove myself sometimes[okay, not sometimes, always]. I get gentle reminders from the ladies at work, and most of all, Adam, that I have to stay calm and happy--and not even for me--for his baby. I love how much he cares and is already showing what an amazing daddy he'll be, just based on how well he takes care of me. I don't have him going on midnight errands to get an obscure item, but when I say, "Ooo this sound good," I usually find it in my hands a very short time after & he's always making sure I'm taking care of myself in every way. I'm more thankful for this goon of mine every single day.

Miss anything: These are all only going to get worse as time goes: Bending over comfortably. Quickly running across the street with Kunu and not having to pee the moment a jog begins,  not feeling like my fingers are making a vested effort to expand the moment conditions are not ideal, feeling like my bladder is going to explode--only to sit down and have an underwhelming pee.

Most excited about: Finding our stroller/car seat.  We're pretty jazzed about it & it will be an item that we get very soon. It's one thing we'll not be waiting to get. Also, discovering the options for online baby stuff stores. Things are much less expensive if you get to checking! Wahoo for cute and not spendy!

Cravings: Eh... just food. Yep...just food. I'll eat it. Whatever, whenever with whoever. I'm down.

Symptoms: Finally feeling pregnant. Not in a bad way- just the days get to me, I can't do as much as I used to. I can't even saunter off a curb without my bladder yelling at me for goodness sakes.

Mood: Well, clearly *ahemrantabove* I've got a little pent up- BUT truly, I am very happy and relaxed. I've learned to use my weekends as true decompression from the week, and it really works.  

Milestones: Nothing recently. I think the next one will be in 5 weeks after my GD (Gestational Diabetes) test. Otherwise...nothing big, that I can think of.

Looking forward to: Adam feeling consistent movement. This monster likes to kick my organs more than outside. It feels very odd, to say the least- and while I don't mind, Adam doesn't get to join in the fun as much because baby is facing the wrong direction!

Well, I think that is enough blabber from this mamma-to- be!

Aloha,  Mrs. Keck

Half baked- 20 Weeks & Gaining Steam

Gosh... I can hardly believe we've passed the halfway mark! Maybe because life has been so busy crazy lately, but WOW this is flying by. I am so thankful for so many things and this pregnancy certainly has brought light to them...maybe I'll save that laundry list of things for the Thanksgiving post ;).

This week I thought I'd try a little something different to showcase how the last couple weeks have been.  I gathered a bunch of questions in hopes that it would save me from rambling so much. I am just so excited and wish I could be sharing these moments with the family in person, but hey...thank goodness for technology, right?

 How big is baby Keck? Size of a small cantaloup (according to one app)

Total weight gain: 8-10 pounds, the masses are applauding, finally!- though I'm unsure if it's boobs or belly gaining the weight....seriously.


Maternity clothes? Pants, definitely. Most of my dresses and shirts aside from the fitted ones still work nicely. The few maternity shirts I have, I enjoy because they help the belly look even more like baby and less like chubster.

Sleep/dreams? Aside from waking up to pee quite frequently, I am now finding sleeping on my back to be uncomfortable, so time to stop I guess. Also time for a body pillow so I can get into a nice comfy position for the remaining months.

Best moment this week? For me, seeing my belly move when the baby moved. Seeing the kicks and feeling them from the outside is SO fun. Poking my belly and feeling a poke back is just too fun. I'm already picking on our little one, hehe.  Now just waiting for little one to be active when Adam is home.

Biggest challenge this week? Sleeping soundly. Switching positions and waking up a lot more just isn't awesome. Yes, I know, sleep will continue to be a challenge from here on out- but once my belly isn't dictating the position or comfort of my sleep, it will be better.

Miss anything? The last couple weeks... MARGARITAS! I could desperately go for a nice cocktail to take the edge off these crazy weeks. Ice cream will do for now, I suppose.

Most excited about: Finally having a BABY belly that is noticeable not just to me and the people who know me best. I think it is safe to say I am no longer in the awkward "has she put on weight or is there a baby in there," stage. 

 
Cravings? Not particularly, and actually my aversions to most things are kind of gone, too. My supersonic nose still turns me off to a lot of things, but nothing that I was used to eating or enjoyed before baby are happily enjoyed now, too. 


Symptoms: Most notable, stuffy nose! When I lay down for bed and through the morning I'm stuffed up.  Also, sausage finger syndrome. Rings are off this week, officially. My poor little fingers, due to the heat, and increased blood flow- are quite on the chubbariffic side. 


Happy or moody most of the time? This whole pregnancy I've been very relaxed, perhaps too relaxed in some fashion. I have certainly had my hormonal mood swing shifts, crying spells (most notably recently was my laugh attack that resulted in uncontrollable crying from laughing and it was ridiculous, but at least I was happy). The last couple weeks are no different. 


Any milestones this week? Feeling the baby from the outside! It's pretty exciting, and though poor daddy (Adam) is definitely feeling left out because he either is relaxing and soothing to baby, or baby is just plain worn out by the time he gets home, but there is zero movement from the time he gets home to when we wake up most of the time. OR I get a couple good kicks, then put his hand there...and nadda. 


Looking forward to: Getting into "nesting" mode. I haven't really felt the desire to buy or do anything for baby yet. I look at plenty of baby things, have my registries and wish lists all organized, but the desire to fill our apartment with all things baby just hasn't hit me yet. I know it will, and bank account beware! 


Speaking of baby things, I just wanted to showcase some of the incredible gifts we've already been given for baby! I just love all of them SO much and am very thankful. Thought I would share what we've gotten: 

We purchased the two silly onesies with the text and the polka-dot blanket, but otherwise, all fabulous things received by our incredible friends. This baby is already blessed beyond words.

 The amount of growth this baby has made ME show can only mean it is growing like crazy in there, too! Can't wait to see what the next weeks bring.

Until then, 

-The ever expanding Momma-to-be 

18 Weeks: Movin' & Groovin'

18 weeks... What to say about 18 weeks. To be honest, not a whole lot has changed as far as I'm concerned- but baby has certainly made some strides.

I'm feeling movement just about daily, almost perfectly timed after meals and snacks. Apparently little one enjoys food as much as Mommy ;) Speaking of food, I officially have a couple recurring cravings: Safeway Mac & Cheese (in the deli soup area), Garlic bread, Grapefruit & Lemonade (though that's a lifelong fav so I'm not so sure it counts). I quite literally can't walk through the produce section without taking huge whiffs of the grapefruit and ultimately grabbing many to munch on like an orange all week (aka I just peel and eat). 

We had an appointment on Saturday where we met our MD. She seems like a lovely woman. She was pleased with my progress and was very encouraging regarding choosing a midwife and alternating prenatal visits between them. So the next appointment is scheduled with the midwife. I can't believe it'll be past the halfway mark next time I go in! It seems to be flying by. 

Then...the most exciting part of the last weeks...ULTRASOUND today! Words just cannot fully explain how amazing it was to see our baby. S/he was such a wiggle worm, too. It was too funny. Every time she did a quick picture, baby was in a totally different position when she went back to real time. Even more, I could feel baby push against the little wand dealy when she was pushing down and around to get good angles. Ah. I could relive this morning over and over. The most important thing is that baby is measuring right on target, all of the organs and body systems/parts are exactly where they are supposed to be. She kept saying, "gorgeous" and "textbook" when she was measuring. I think that's a good sign.  Ok- I'll quit rambling-- here is baby! 

Profile: loving the little button nose! I believe that is actually it's little foot coming up on the side. Apparently playing with feet is fun in-utero.










This was taken shortly after we were asked if we wanted to know the sex-- baby doesn't want us to know either! We got mooned. hehe. It did give us a great photo of the little spine and backside, though! I'll take it.

Ah. Just so perfect! I can hardly believe this little life is growing inside me! It just makes me love my growing belly that much more. So...here is me!


Ashley this week: Nevermind the hair-- it's HOT and sticky. Down and styled was just not happening today.


Weight gained: +5lbs, and feeling great about it


Maternity clothes?: I got a box from my lovely step-momma containing my first maternity pants & shirts. It's amazing how it transforms me from looking and feeling a bit chubby, to oh-so-definitely pregnant. 90% of my clothes still fit, I've just had to say goodbye to the pants and fitted dresses. Oh...and bra's- yep, I've retired all of the pre-pregnancy bras.





Symptoms: Truly I'm feeling fantastic now. I was definitely tired in the first tri, looking back. My nose seems to be getting sharper as the weeks go by (and on-and-off stuffy). I also notice if I haven't been good about my fluid intake. I puff up pretty quick if I haven't gotten enough water.

Missing anything?: Sleeping through the night. Since I try to  drink so much water, that also means I'm getting up to pee at least 3 times a night. It's worth it to know I won't wake up with stomach cramps or anything else.






The only other news I can report is that regarding movement, baby responds to being bothered in there. Adam pushed on a few spots in my belly on our way home today, and within moments, I was feeling the little one wiggle around. I've said it before, but I just cannot wait until he can feel these movements when he touches my belly!

We've got big weeks ahead -- school starts next week, so that means a busier Ashley at work, and Adam back to classes to create even more wonderful pieces of artwork for us all to admire. I hope baby gets some artistic-ness from daddy, he's just amazing!

Thank you all for being so fantastic and supportive. I could list all of the people I am eternally grateful for throughout this exciting process- but I hope I show my gratitude daily and you know who you are. I'm missing you all back in Minnesota/Wisconsin/Indiana, etc, and I hope this is helping you stay and feel connected to us.

Sending endless love from all 4 of us (Kunu boy included) on the rock!

16 Weeks: Belly Has Arrived

I didn't realize what a difference a week can make!  Initially I thought I would do every other week but when I woke up the other morning and looked in the mirror, only to see this chubby-ness all of a sudden looking like BABY, I was thrilled and minorly freaked out at how quickly it showed up.

I've felt great this week so far, nothing new or different to report on that front. Just much more aware of this belly! So... here it is:

Look at this bump! It happened for sure! The "thickness" on the back and side I felt last week is making its way to the front now.

If there was any doubt...my chest is taking over my body! Oye! The polka-dots certainly help accentuate the curvy-ness...but it's pretty accurate to how I feel!















News this week: Technically this would be the week we could find out the gender...so let the guesses begin! From here on out I will take a front and side view (my hips are starting to shift...thanks gymnastics/dance for the no hip situations) so you can place your bets ;)   [Gma Keck and Gma Wiswell have both made their girl vote- they had dreams of us having a little girl, Gpa Wiswell just calls baby "Maximum Danger" so I'm thinking he's team boy-perhaps just wishful thinking. Those are the only predictions so far]

Also, I got blood work done for the genetic testing- the results came in and all was "normal." I had a slight panic because my phone (of course) decided to cut out as she said normal and for a split second I thought she said abnormal. She repeated herself, thankfully so I heard it correct!  AND I am officially +2 pounds this week. That could be why both my belly and boobs have decided to show just how in charge they are!

Finally, and the most exciting... I FELT baby move! I've been thinking that I could for about a week, but either I fart right after I think it's baby (and fart babies just aren't as exciting), or I just can't be confident that it's baby. Today at work a little after breakfast I could feel little pressure pops and then when I pressed on my belly in those spots it was noticeably harder and then I'd feel it again! It was brief but SO SO exciting! I can't wait until the kicks get stronger and even more when Adam can feel them on the outside!

In other news: We've been name searching pretty hard and have a handful of names for boy and girl. It's so fun yet so tough to come up with a name! I am confident, though, that the moment we see our precious little-one's face, there will be no doubt what the name is! Just ~24 weeks until we meet our perfect baby Keck!

Until next week,

-Ash

Weeks 6 to 15...Part 2

...and back to Hawaii we flew.

Monday, June 17: Going back to reality was tough, of course! Luckily I was still feeling really healthy other than getting tired pretty quickly, bloating and the breakouts that seemed to keep creeping up no matter what!

Even though I still felt bloated, I was surprised I looked slimmer this week than 2 weeks ago! No weight change, and my pants were still not so comfy to keep buttoned after I ate. I just kept reading, "It's bloat, not baby," [This date was technically week 9- BUT, we took the picture before]














Monday, June 24: The next couple weeks were pretty smooth, my appetite was gaining- though my sweet tooth was completely gone. My normal chocoholic self was not interested in sweets aside from fruit.

By week 10 I was falling asleep right after work and hardly waking up long enough to have dinner, take Kunu outside and wait for Adam to get home. Luckily I was walking to-and-from work every day, so at least I clocked in a 3+ mile walk Monday-Friday and another hour or two of walking with Kunu every day. I was definitely hungry...for fruit, cheese and plain romaine lettuce with ranch (and I am NOT a fan of ranch ordinarily).










As we got closer to the end of the first trimester it began to get SO much harder not to let the news leak to too many more people. By now, most of the family and Hawaii friends knew- as well as the friends we saw while we were in Minnesota. We had to remind the family not to post anything online! It was tough!

Monday, July 8: WEEK 12! We made it to the 2nd trimester, wahoo! Just one week to the next appointment, and the day to tell everyone our excitement! I started being able to feel how hard the bottom of my abdomen was getting- even Adam noticed and just those little things make this whole thing more real!

At this point I was feeling simultaneously hungry, tired, restless, and had to pee. Still a minimal sweet tooth, but a growing desire for sour and salty. Also, cold showers became my BFF. Feeling hot when the tradewinds disappear is an awful feeling. It drives the hormonal-ness to a new level.

I experienced my first "cry" spell between 10 and 12 weeks...my poor, poor Adam. I was both laughing and crying because I knew there was NO reason for tears, and he was looking at me helpless because I had just freaked out and could not stop the tears. Whoops... but nothing a little vanilla ice cream couldn't mend.






Tuesday, July 16:  WE TOLD FACEBOOK... aka THE WORLD, our fabulous news! We were overwhelmed with love and support by people who already knew, friends and family far away, and a surprising amount of people we haven't spoken to in a long time. At 13 weeks, the only way I could tell I was "with child," was the fact that I have been acutely aware of EVERY smell in the universe, good, bad and ugly- an appetite for days, and the ability to pee every 20 minutes. Thanks, baby, for not moving further up my abdomen yet...

Tuesday, July 30: Time flies when you're busy, pregnant and sleepy! The last few weeks, I think Adam has had more cravings than me. My sweet tooth has slowly returned, unfortunately. I was kind of happy not craving chocolate daily as I used to. Oh well... as long as I get my gobs of fruits, veggies and protein- a sweet or salty treat at the end of my busy day is all good!

I have continued to walk to and from work every day, and we've even found the energy to do a couple long walk/jogs on the weekends as a little family. The last week, my energy has significantly improved. It's nice to not pass out right away when I get home, and then sleep all night.  I think "baby" is finally starting to show a little bit in my midsection. My pants are permanently unbuttoned (out of comfort). They CAN still button, but who likes a muffin top...not this girl.  My skin has cleared up in the last couple weeks (thank goodness!) which has been a super plus!









We are getting excited for the next ultrasound, which is unfortunately still a few weeks away- BUT it's all scheduled! We also get to meet the rest of our healthcare team in a couple weeks, so that will be great, too!

Just an FYI- we are "team green," aka- as much as Adam has tried to convince me we should find out the gender of this little monster...we are not! I am all for surprises, and this will be the absolute GREATEST surprise of our lives up to now.

That's all for now! Every couple weeks I'll have a photo and an update so you can "watch baby grow!"

Lots of love and excitement,
 Momma-to-be

The beginning of an adventure: Week 6 to 15

Ah! We're having a baby!

From the moment I woke from a sound sleep and knew instantly there was a life developing inside me and the ocean of emotions when the home test showed "PREGNANT" almost immediately, I knew the time of my life I've been waiting for since I was a young girl was finally happening! I may be a "career girl," but being a MOM has always been the most important piece of what would define my life.  I could not be more lucky to have found Adam, my loving, goofy, talented husband, the yin to my yang, and he will be the best DAD. This adventure into parenthood is bound to be our most exciting yet (and we've had some great ones already!)

Without further adieu- here is the journey so far:

Saturday, May 11: My 5:00AM stomach cramp wake up call to tell me the good news. All week i was feeling "different" and when I woke up then, there was not a tiny doubt. After I did a tearful happy dance, I looked over to my sweet, sleeping boys and debated for a good 15 minutes whether to wait until Adam woke up to tell him...but decided on jumping on him and waking him up with "YOU'RE GOING TO BE A DADDY!!!"  After he registered what I said, lots of giggles, hugs and kisses followed.

Symptoms: Stomach cramping, fleeting nausea, jawline breakout & extremely sore breasts. Though none of that mattered I was so excited! I was almost 5 weeks in this picture. (Exactly one week after my first positive test) The biggest challenge I had was not blurting it out to everyone!






Saturday June, 1: I am officially feeling bloated. I fully realized there was no way it was baby making me feel like I couldn't wear pants- but it wasn't awesome. Aside from bloating, extreme thirst and insomnia- I felt just fine. We were getting excited to go back to Minnesota to share our news with the family. At the end of Week 6, still just letting this sink in!



Oddly enough I look "biggest" in this picture... Halfway due to bloating the other half, poor body position. Either way, just pure excited!














Monday, June 3: We had our first ultrasound to confirm the due date- baby Keck measured at exactly 7 weeks, setting our Estimated Due Date at January 20, 2014!! The heartbeat was right on track and put our confidence in telling the family the following week even higher!

Wednesday & Thursday, June 12&13: The wonderful days that we got to share our incredible news with the family! First up was the Kecks, since it was the only night we would be out with them. We wrapped up the plaque and let Mom open it up. Here is the "before and after" pictures when they found out. The joy in their faces is priceless.

...and now for the Wiswell's. We had family photos planned with Brandon Tormanen, and lucky for me he's a long-time good friend so I was able to be pretty sneaky! I love their expressions. 

The only reaction photo I didn't get was my Mom- and I am bummed I didn't because she was donned in her work uniform flailing her arms running through the dining room screaming, "YAYY!!!!" It was adorable! I had one of her servers bring the ultrasound picture back and act like an angry customer gave her a "bad note," well, I heard her yelp from all the way back in the kitchen as she burst through charging me with hug arms! 

I am SO glad we got to tell our families in person. It just would not have been the same over a phone call or FaceTime experience. It was so worth the surprise on yet another trip back to the MinneApple! 

...and on to part two (before this gets too long!)